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how to live in solitude by leaving loneliness ?

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Being alone and feeling lonely are two completely different things, however. Many people feel lonely even when they're in a crowded room. And some people spend lots of time alone without ever actually feeling lonely.  It's important to untangle two concepts being alone and being lonely. While there 's some overlap between them, they're completely different concepts. Maybe you are a person who absolutely basis in solitude. You are not antisocial, friendless, or loveless. You are just quite content with alone time. In fact, you look forward to it. That 's simply being alone not being lonely. On the other hand, maybe you 're surrounded by family and friends but not really relating beyond a surface level, which has you feeling rather empty and disconnected. Or maybe being alone just leaves you sad and longing for the company. That's loneliness. When you surround yourself with moments of solitude and stillness, you become intimately famili...

What is self growth ?

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It is one of the most important chapter of our life which we all neglect to improve and many people don't know about it. No one can talk about it and if talk so incomplete talk. What is self-growth? Improve our behavior and habits by notice yourself who are in a real way and what you want to be assembled so that you should be in reality a great person that everyone liked them. But you know what are the strategies you should follow. Here are some strategies which help the person to build and improve our growth. 1. Aware to know yourself Notice what 's your behavior with others, notice how much positive you think every day. Notice what 's your dreams think about it. All means notice your thoughts and start to do work upon them. If you really start work upon them you should successful to improve yourself. 2. Leave comfort zone Comfort zone is the biggest stone in your way which decreases your speed of strength and compelled you to reac...

"Gratitude" is a magical word

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Gratitude is one of the powers of this universe. By which God supplies us what we want from him. Gratitude like wheat which the person grows and then self take the taste and avail of it. Gratitude gives us the power to live happily and satisfied by which God paise the person and fulfills their desires between super intelligence power and a person from those man 's desires fulfilled. First, we should believe in the supreme natural power then, in reality, we should live in that desire and always strong to our belief and then looked them to be true. The state of being gratefulness brings peace in our minds which is the law of this supernatural power to true dreams and make the thought a reality There is a natural principle that action and reaction always equal and in opposite direction. Love is a special beauty which creates desires. And the desire to want something to create the power to get whatever you want. Appreciation encourages us...

How to get good at something quickly ?

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How to get good at something quickly? Focus on your childhood we take interest in learning anything but after trying some minutes if the thing is not to happen according to us we bore in it and leave it to do. And this process is continuing by us today also. Because we do not know the fact behind it. We breathe ourselves, our eyes blinking ourselves when sleep comes to us than our eyes close ourselves. It means all this happens by our subconsciousness. And there is our mind which generates thoughts and we act on it. It means we have consciousness. If we want to slim first we can do some painful exercises but bearing that pain first our mind thoughts push us to not doing this and the next side is our subconsciousness which pushes us to do it physically. By one side thought says to do it and another side whole body feels pain. So to bearing this pain 90% of people leave it and only 10% can do the effort but the question is how 10% of people become do i...

How do I discover my passion and talent

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How do I discover my passion and talent Talent is the key to self - existence. First, everyone knows us in society by our talent than after with name. In this world, everyone would give their service to run and develop this world. Whatever you give that much you receive. If someone says no I come in this world to only enjoy so he remains poor in his life. Because that much this world gives you whatever you pay in exchange. And what about talent from where it comes so it discovers by yourself. Here are some points to discover your talent:- 1. Observe yourself from childhood Childhood is the state from which you know which activity or which game your DNA takes an interest. Because in childhood child has lots of energy to do without any obstacles to being there with full concentrate. 2. Ask from others what they notice about     your talent Take observation of others towards you in which they understand your way what they suggest to yo...

How thoughts affect our reality?

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How thoughts affect our reality? The human mind is very powerful. Our mind controls our body. And in mind thoughts are there which is created by our external atmosphere where we live. So first we should understand this world deeply what are the rules and regulations of it. Is anybody harms us without our permission? The answer is "no" we form ourselves that what we choose to form. This is the truth of this universe which very few people know and this is affecting our society, Nobody talks about this topic. This is the answer which should everybody knows. Everything which creates in this world it's the starting point is thought. And the same direction of a group of thoughts manifest itself and form this real world. Our mind is  connected with our feelings and behaviour. If we think we are failure there is a lack in our energy and we act as  failure and this belief strongs our thought and we must be face failure. Our thinking catalyst is self...

Power of self -Belief

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             Power of Self -Belief To believe in ourselves is key to get what you want from life anything and everything. It means to understand how the law of the power of self-Belief works. Self -Belief is the step that reaching us to our goals. For self - belief we should think positively towards our goals. For it, one should take one step forward by which we realize we will reach closer o our goal. Self -Belief is the power that arrives us to the tree of fruits. Here are some points which develop in our ability to focus on self-Belief. 1. Gain experience in your field Whatever you learn in any field related to take the experience from doing it. For the first time, you not understand how to deal with it but after some time you slowly realize yes I can do it. It is understood by you and you take an interest in it. Now doing this work is like a game for you in which you succeed always. 2. Count your wins in a day ...

Do I know who I am?

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Do you really know who we are? We talk about all the topics which things in front of us but we can't see the mirror and ask ourselves that who I am? Is l am this body? This body is a physical outer shell of our existence. It had 5senses skin, nose, eyes, ears, eyes, tongue two kidneys, one heart, lungs, and different systems. This physical part eats, breathes, moves, reproduce. This body is a physical part that is controlled by a subtle part - the mind. Is l am this mind? We have a mind that has the power of recall, remember, think, and choose. From our birth and up to now we have a lot of memory which saves in our computer mind from which we can't delete anything but sometimes such memory deleted itself. Our mind awakens when we sleep, and dreams come in mind so the mind is not us because the memory of mind is deleted but then also we stay so we are not a mind. Is l am this soul? Our soul is a spiritual, immortal part of a human being that is subtle and...

How to turn off negative thoughts

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How to turn off negative thoughts? Negative thoughts are also part of thoughts. Like a coin has to head and tail just like that thought have positive and negative aspect it is the evidence of the normal state of mind. Yes, it is true that too many negative thoughts are harmful to our mental health.  Sometimes negative thoughts prevent us from doing preparation of our project but sometimes it is unusually grasped up with fear So how to turn off our negative thoughts? Here are some points which help us to turn off negative:- 1. Observe our negative thoughts Negative thoughts take place in our mind when we are not aware what is off in our mind and we only tolerate that pain we just not know what happens with us how we get rid with this pain and we suffer from the fear of this pain. So first we should observe our mind what is running   init?  2.  Recognize how to deal with it Recognize that this thought is st...

How to get over someone who hurt you?

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How to get over someone who hurt you? Are you feeling helpless when someone hurts you.? It is a common scenario. How to ignore the feeling of irritating when someone shouted on you? When does someone complain about the small things which no have enough mean how to avoid it? It is the situation faced by everybody but few of them understand the real game. It is the situation that feels anyone full of anger and prudence person take an interest in it. Here are some points to get over when someone hurts you:- 1. No one gets harm unless you give them        Permission It depends on you that what you think about yourself rather than treat yourself on anybody's declaration of your identity. Think before reacting to others' statements. If someone says you foolish then he reveals about himself what 's his attitude towards others. 2. Meditate Meditation is the best way to control your mind and build focus on your mind to decide befo...